What Is A Swingers Club + What To Expect

A swingers club is a permanent location where couples can enjoy partner swapping. Consentual non-monogamy, as this is called, is a form of polyamory. Unlike with polyamory, a couple exchanges sex partners, without any type of relationship or commitment.

Swingers parties cater to most forms of alternative relationships, but you should to verify if a given event and location cater to LGBT. Many Swingers clubs only cater to the heterosexual lifestyle. Checking in advance prevents disappointment at the door.

What can you expect

You should expect sexual exploration at all swingers clubs, but the level of style and class will differ from venue to venue. Like other nightclubs, you have cheap ones and expensive ones. In most cases, the height of the membership fee, or the price of entry will indicate the clientele you can expect. In other words, you should not expect the most beautiful crowd at the cheapest venue. On the other hand, the cheaper club will probably have more people attending.

Many lifestyle clubs only cater to couples. In an ideal world, you should find a balanced ratio of men to women at your chosen event. Some clubs allow single men in order to make more money. This can quickly skew the ratio, resulting in a sausage fest.

Swingers Clubs Near Me

Unfortunately, Cape Town does not offer a lot of choices for a swinger. In general, there are numerous established swinger clubs in South Africa, but Cape Town seems to be different. In spite of the many foreign visitors, society in Cape Town appears to be more conservative than society in Gauteng. Nonetheless, swinging is popular in Cape Town, but it is less social than elsewhere. Why do we come to this conclusion? Simple: Most swinger events in Cape Town take place in private homes.

If you are looking for swingers clubs, Cape Town offers the following choices — in no particular order:

 

Here they are in more detail:

Liza's Lounge Club

Liza's Lounge Club is the oldest lifestyle club in Cape Town. Consider this club the original. The venue is located in Table View. Admission rates are reasonable.

Infinity Lifestyle Club

Infinity started as a BDSM venue. The owner has recently diversified into swinging. Infinity was located in Blouberg, then moved to Durbanville. Admission rates are reasonable, but Google currently lists them as "temporarily closed". Please call them to find out if they are open.

EPICURE CLUB

EPICURE is the newer club, hosting the first event in 2019. The 2200 squaremeter venue is an adults-only 4-star boutique hotel. Guests can stay overnight in one of five elegant suites.

What can you expect at EPICURE? Let's just say that it will not be like Alan Harper's swinger party visit on Two and a Half Men. You may expect a dress up social event with DJ's, security and bar staff. In the course of the evening, after plenty of socializing, things will get naughty. Needless to say, consent will be required for any interaction, so ladies will feel safe. The EPICURE CLUB is a safe space, where you can live out your fantasies from swinging to BDSM.

If you would like more information about this club, click here.

Pick Your Poison

These clubs in Cape Town are very different in philosophy, costs, location and demographics, but you will find a sex party at any one of them. "Pick your poison" as they say.