Swingers Party

What Is A Swingers Party

Many people are curious about swinging and the swinger lifestyle. We welcome you to try the swinger lifestyle without pressure, in a clean, luxurious and safe environment. Our swingers club is focused on couples.

Our Swinger Definition

If you are not in a relationship, you are single, divorced or a widower. By definition you are not a swinger. It does not matter how much you like sex or with how many partners of the opposite sex you have had intercourse — you are not coming with a consenting partner so we view you as single. The terms swinger and single are mutually exclusive.

The above does not imply that singles are not welcome at our swinger events. You are welcome at most of them. We don't judge, but we want to put an end to the abuse of the words swinger and swingers.

If you are a single lady attending a swingers party, you will be considered a unicorn.

If you are a single gentlemen attending a swingers party, you will be considered a bull.

How are Swingers Parties Different From Sex Parties

You could argue that a swingers party is a subset of a sex party. As such, the swingers party is much more specialized — it is an event for consenting couples. A single lady or gentleman can attend a sex party, but they may or may not be welcome at swingers events. It all depends on the criteria set by the event host.

How To Get Started

Obviously many roads lead to Rome. The direct route is often not the best way. If you follow our analogy, going to a party and hooking up with another couple is the direct route. Forcing this approach has its dangers. If one of the partners has reservations, or even an undesirable experience, you may be putting an end to your alternative lifestyle experience before it has properly gotten started. Get in touch with us so we can discuss your unique journey.

Ratio Of Men To Women

In an ideal world, most people would like there to be an even ratio of men to women at these parties. We mentioned "ideal world", because many clubs struggle to have an even ratio. This may have many reasons. One reason being that single men are more likely to attend a swingers party than single women. For this reason single women have the nickname "unicorn" at these events. Our swinger parties are guaranteed to have an even ratio. We curate these events, and use pricing as one of the tools.

The most successful clubs have their own unique recipes for dealing with the men-to-women ratio.

Frequently Asked Questions

We have compiled some questions for you, which we have been asked in the past.

What are the rules and guidelines to follow during the event?

The primary rules are to be discreet and respectful of other peoples wishes and boundaries. Swingers parties around the world require consent before you touch someone other than your partner. Failure to follow these rules will usually get you removed from the event.

Is there a Minimum Age?

You will find that around the globe, parties of this nature have a minimum age. In some countries it may be 18 years, in others 21 years of age.

As newcomers, what should we expect upon arrival?

You can expect welcoming, like-minded people.

Will someone be available to give us a tour?

At most parties you will find a hostess who will give you an introduction to their specific rules and their venue.

Are there any safety measures in place regarding STI's?

There is only so much that can realistically be done. Most clubs provide condoms You need to take responsibility yourself, though, and refrain from playing without a condom.

Should we bring our own toys?

Contact the event host ahead of time and find out how they feel about your specific toys. You are responsible for what happens to your toys, including their loss.

Do we have to participate?

That depends on the club you plan on visiting. Contact them ahead of time and ask them.

As first-timers, what should we know in advance and plan for?

We would suggest having a nice dinner and then coming to the party. Don't come with an empty stomach, don't come with food fatique. Find a balance that enables you to party a long evening.

What time should we arrive?

Read the event invitation and inquire with the host what they recommend. In our experience arriving late at a swingers party is not fashionable. It is a poor strategy, as many people have socialized and groups have developed.

Will there be alcohol?

That depends on the venue. Please inquire with the event organizer

Does the venue have a restaurant that serves food?

That depends on the venue. Most venues serve small snacks at swingers parties.

How can we be assured of discretion among attendees?

Keep in mind that everyone at the party has the same concerns as you. That not withstanding, you are welcome to use an alias when you introduce yourself to other guests. If you want to be discreet, do not share your phone number or social media profiles. Photography is absolutely forbidden on the premises. We will destroy a device with glee...

Do attendees wear face masks?

At some events a face mask is mandatory, at other events it is optional. You can usually find this information in the event invitation or the ticket sales.

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About the Author

The EPICURE CLUB team has seen the tears of joy and the tears of sorrow at many swingers parties. We have managed numerous events, participated in parties hosted by others and gotten feedback from many guests. We are not a barstool quarterback, but an authority on the topic.