What Is A Dominatrix?
A Dominatrix, more commonly known as a Domme, Domina or Mistress, is a woman who takes the dominant role in BDSM/Fetish/Kink activities and play sessions. A Mistress is usually portrayed or seen as some woman dressed in leather, brandishing some torture device, and is only out to inflict pain with whips, canes, floggers, etc. on their male submissives and slaves. However, women can also serve a Domme. People who hire a professional Domme are usually excited by the Dominant/submissive role play and can come from a wide variety of backgrounds and sexual preferences, including couples and the LGBQTIA+ community.
Inflicting pain is just one aspect of the BDSM/Fetish/Kink lifestyle. There is so much more to explore down this rabbit hole. In some cases, erotic humiliation such as verbal or public humiliation is used. A Goddess can also exert or demonstrate her absolute control through bondage, anal play, age play, or even softer, more sensual acts like shibari (rope play), or wax play. The list is endless.
Pro Domme
A pro Domme, is a Dominatrix who charges for her services. It is a unique and individual service in which both the Domme and her submissive or slave communicate with each other regarding what will take place during a session beforehand. This session can be anything from an hour to two or more, depending on the service being paid for. She can have domestic slaves who will carry out household chores, garden services or other handyman duties around the Domme’s home, in return for her services, approval, and gratification.
Mistresses may also have sex slaves or bulls in attendance or serving her. A bull is generally seen as a more attractive, better-endowed man with great sexual talents and will be brought in as a third party. A bull will satisfy his Mistress sexually while a slave/partner will watch (cuckold relationship). A sex slave in the community is someone who has consensually agreed to be owned by their Domme and is there to satisfy her sexual needs as she deems fit. A pro-Domme retains all rights-of-ownership of her slave/s as long as consent exists. Whilst slavery was abolished many years ago, it is not unusual in the community, for one person to give up all their rights to their Mistress and place themselves in a position of absolute servitude. There are Mistresses who have live-in, 24/7 slaves. They will typically serve as a sex slave too.
This may be a cause of concern for many people, especially those who do not understand this ‘hidden’ world. One vital and highly important factor that people outside of such a relationship must understand is that there is a great deal of respect and CONSENT is always given. Nothing is forced and it is a relationship that is agreed upon and entered into by adults who have discussed the relationship and the activities that will take place in their ‘play’ time.
Femdom
A Dominatrix may also be referred to as a FemDom. In this case, a pro Domme who engages in Femdom activities believes completely in Female Supremacy and that men are there only to serve her at all times and obey or fulfil her every wish and command. A classic example and probably the best, is that of Matriarch Ezada Sinn.
Some people consider a Dominatrix to be a sex worker. However, the arrangements between a sex worker and a pro-Domme and their respective clients are very different, due to the criteria and expectations for the kinds of services provided.
Domina is a woman who has been in the industry for some time and has honed her skills. She is well educated in the many various activities in the BDSM/Fetish/Kink world. She offers a specialized and highly skilled service that requires both physical and mental work and stamina. A Dominatrix is not for everyone and her work does not come cheap. Typically people who are wealthier and who can afford the services of a Domme will be the ones to do so.
A pro Domme works on her own terms and is her own boss. She is an expert who takes you on a journey to explore your deepest, darkest desires and fantasies in a safe, sane, sober (S.S.S.C.), and consensual environment. There is no judgment. There are a few kink activities that may be dangerous, especially if a Domme does not have enough experience or background knowledge of that activity, to do them safely. A pro-Domme is capable of using her expertise to ensure her client is taken care of at all times.
Rules & Etiquette
When you engage a dominant at the EPICURE CLUB, you are expected to follow the High Protocol. Please note, that ignorance is not bliss. Ignorance will simply earn you a world of discipline.
Discreet Venue
The EPICURE CLUB is the most discreet adult club in Cape Town and the Western Cape. We thrive on naughty and live discreetness. We have luxurious hotel rooms for those who want to stay longer than their session. It should not come as a surprise, that we have a dedicated dungeon. We have a jacuzzi for those who need aftercare for their bruised ass.
Our Dominatrices
Our Dominatrices in Cape Town offer a range of fantasies including:
- Discipline
- Abduction play
- Femdom
- Feminization
- Interrogation Play
- Pegging
If you are curious about BDSM, desire training or simply need to submit, give us a call. We have a range of Dommes which cover the spectrum of needs and budgets.
Dark Baroness
Our resident Pro Domme Dark Baroness is probably the most experienced Dominatrix in Cape Town.
Please note that the Dark Baroness is happy to discipline you. She will dominate you, including pegging your pathetic ass. She will not have sex with you, though. If you desire sex as well, please seek a Lady Bizarre.
Lilith Noir
If the cost of an experienced Pro Domme exceeds your budget, consider a less experienced one. Lilith Noir has three years of experience.
Please note that Mistress Lilith is not a Lady Bizarre. She is happy to dominate you, but she will not have sex with you.
Dominatrix Hire
If you would like to book a Domme, please email serve@epicure.club or WhatsApp 074 878 0000. We will then discuss your needs, the duration of the session and the associated costs of realizing your fantasy. If you decide to proceed, you will be sent a discreet payment link via Whatsapp or email. Once you have made the payment, we will confirm your appointment.
If you are not willing to pay for services, we respectfully suggest that you refrain from requesting such services. Instead, attend one of our regular kink events. At one of these events you can be disciplined in public, which will not be as discreet, but you will have discipline for a small investment — the price of the ticket.