Swingers Party Cape Town

We welcome you to try the swinger lifestyle without pressure, in a clean, luxurious and safe environment. Our swingers club in Cape Town is focused on couples.

How To Get Started

Buy a ticket online for one of our events. Contact us to discuss which event is best suited for you and your partner. There will be other newcomers to the alternative lifestyle. There is no need to participate. You can observe, ask our team questions and communicate with your partner. The last point is the most important aspect about your first visit: Make sure both of you set boundaries and are comfortable.

Ratio Of Men To Women

In an ideal world, most people would like there to be an even ratio of men to women at these parties. We mentioned "ideal world", because many clubs struggle to have an even ratio. This may have many reasons.

• The hygiene is insufficient;
• The atmosphere is not elegant;
• The venue focuses on the needs of the men;

 

The most successful clubs have their own unique recipes for dealing with the men-to-women ratio. Our swinger parties are guaranteed to have an even ratio. We curate these events, and use pricing as one of the tools.

Frequently Asked Questions

We have compiled some questions for you, which we have been asked in the past.

What are the rules and guidelines to follow during the event?

You will find written House Rules at various locations. Here are the most important ones:

• No Photography: Failure to follow this rule will get your device destroyed
• Consent is required: Failure to follow this rule will get you removed from the event.

Our Minimum Age

You will find that around the globe, parties of this nature have a minimum age. In some countries it may be 18 years, in others 21 years of age. We have set 21 years as our minimum age.

An Introduction

A team members will welcome you, give you an introduction and a tour. You will feel comfortable in no time.

What time can we check into the hotel suite?

The parties start at 8pm, but hotel guests can check in from 2pm. Please contact us for alternative arrangements.

The amenities at our venue

The garden with fabulous views invites to frolicking under the stars. There is also a heated salt-water-pool, a jacuzzi and a dungeon.

Our order of events

• Every first Saturday of the month is our Swingers Day;
• Every second Saturday of the month we host our Hedonism Party, which combines different elements like swinging and kink;
• The third Saturday of the month is dedicated to kink, fetish and BDSM. Swingers are welcome, but it is not a curated couples event.
• The fourth Saturday is our Experimental Day, where we try out different themes;

 

Health & Safety

We encourage everyone to be safe and use condoms. We facilitate this by providing condoms in various play areas. Please be responsible and refrain from playing without a condom.

Sex toys

You are most welcome to bring your own toys. Please note that we cannot be responsible for running after everyone's sex toys. You are responsible for what happens to your toys, including their loss.

Participation

You do not have to participate in any activity. You are welcome to turn down anyone and anything. Please do it with courtesy and respect.

Voyeurism

You will find exhibitionists and voyeurs at most events. Our public play rooms are — public. That means the doors and curtains must stay open. Anyone can observe and get ideas for things to try in their own four walls.

As first-timers, what should we know in advance and plan for?

We would suggest having a nice dinner and then coming to the party. Don't come with an empty stomach, don't come with food fatique. Find a balance that enables you to party a long evening.

Our Cape Town venue has a very steep driveway. Come in comfortable shoes and change into high heels when you reach the lounge.

What time should we arrive?

This is a difficult question to answer, as most people hate to be the first one at the party. Security will allow guests in from 8pm. We suggest you come early to socialise with other guests. Early Birds have a distinct advantage in this regard, unless you are fabulously attractive. Please don't come after midnight. At that time people will have found their playmates and you will be like a fifth wheel on a car.

Will there be a bar onsite? If not, are we allowed to bring our own bottle of wine or gin to our hotel room?

Yes, there is a bar.

Does the venue have a restaurant that serves food?

Initially we served food. This was not very popular with guests, as they found meals like burgers unsexy and too heavy. We therefore restrict ourselves to high quality finger food like sushi these days. There are may restaurants within a 5 minute drive.

How can we be assured of discretion among attendees?

Keep in mind that everyone at the party has the same concerns as you. That not withstanding, you are welcome to use an alias when you introduce yourself to other guests. If you want to be discreet, do not share your phone number or social media profiles. Photography is absolutely forbidden on the premises. We will destroy a device with glee...

Do attendees wear face masks?

This depends on the event. At some events a face mask is mandatory, at other events it is optional. You can usually find this information in the event invitation or the ticket sales.

An Authority

When we perform a Google Search on the topic, we see numerous guidelines on what to expect, and what to do, if you want to enter this lifestyle. Paper is patient, and we question how much experience many of these writers have. Our swingers club in Cape Town hosts more adult parties than anyone else in the Western Cape. Our team has seen the tears of joy and the tears of sorrow. We have managed numerous events, participated in many parties, and gotten feedback from many guests. We are not a barstool quarterback, but an authority on the topic.